Friday 11 May 2012

RADICAL THINKING

Radical thinking is whats required if you want to make radical changes in your personal or business life. The reasons people become unhappy discontented, or just plain disillusioned are all self inflicted. They will undoubtedly have grown originally from the influence of other people and situations, but the choice to remain in a  pattern of behaviour that is consistently   self defeating, is a personal one.  

From my own part I am well aware of how my behaviour, my thought patterns, have had both a positive and negative effect on my life. But self analysis  is the first step to understanding that the same  thought patterns actually have both good and bad results depending on your life situation.

My humour and levity allows me to face what could be deemed as worrying events without the stress many people would suffer from. However these  traight can be detrimental in a board room as the individuals involved will potentially be too serious for words. Controlling you emotions in your business or your personal life is essential to succeed. In business you cannot afford a bad day to affect those who work with you, they look to you for energy and guidance, not for you to steal their energy to replenish your own depleted motivation. Just as in a relationship we are either takers or givers of energy, neither of which are particularly healthy, so trying to find an equitable balance would be the solution.

When you let your emotions,  your ego,  or your subconscious negative conditioning get the better of you ...you will loose The Game, you might think you got away with it , but in time all will come back to haunt you.

The Game of Life we have created  is a training ground for personal and business development, with real players, real events, and real money. Without reality it wouldn't be much of a game. It is an ever evolving project, and always will be.

Whatever scrapes I've been in ( and if you know me you'll know there's been some pretty unusual ones) I've always looked at life as a game, and tried to find the positive in any situation however bad it was. Take the positive and use it. You see this again and again with people who for whatever reason have faced  life changing events..it is the event that inspires, and what can seem as loss and pain at first, is always a door or a message in the journey of your life and the higher purpose of your existence.
 

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