PRE RECORDED ANOTHER DAY

One thing I can't stand is books filled with so much padding and so little meat. So here's a book with the bare bones of all the good stuff I've ever learned about manipulation.

Manipulation is one of my favourite words because, like very few that lie in the average persons 5000 word vocabulary, it has a demonstrable affect on persons face when they hear it, and a fairly negative one at that.

People hate it, the word that is, when you ask them what they think of it, almost like it's one of the devils spawns. It's a lonely word that seems to reflect a planned use of subversive means to achieve a selfish goal. Or a state run plan to dupe the masses into whatever course the state wants. Very rarely do people say "oH it's what you do when you want to guide me to what's best for me." 

Well all of them are true, yes the state does  manipulate the masses so no surprise there , and everything we do is to manipulate someone else to do what we want in some strange fashion, it's just that most people don't want to admit  they are  manipulative and manipulated by everyone else including the state. With the scene set firmly from the day you are born to the day you return to whence you came, you will either be good at manipulating or bad at it, an there in lies the secret of your success.

Manipulation begins internally , that's all the lies you tell yourself, and ends externally with all the lies you tell someone else. No not bad lies just subconscious lies, or half truths if that makes it more palatable for you, lies that determine whether you feel or act in a favourable manner towards  yourself or others. Yes I'm talking about self delusion, self programming . The average human has 70,000 thoughts a day ( who counted them I really don't know , if you were counting your own you'd have to wonder if the counting numbers are counted as thoughts in the count and if so would that double the number and so on and on and on) and for many, the majority are negative berating thoughts of why did you do that? why didn't you say this? your not worthy, your not up to the job, the list goes on, 70,000 on, and that's a lot of negative conditioning. So just think for a moment, what if they were all positive, every single little one of the cute little cherub thoughts you have. How would you feel? What would life be like?  

Well a bit longer to start with. Back in the bible around about Noah's time they were living till they were 800 or so, and I for one can believe it simply because of all the negativity we are exposed to in life has got to go somewhere,  all the stress we live under, the negative conditioning though the tv, the unforfillled wants, needs and desires, the fame thing, the failure thing, the celeb thing, the if your not part of the rich and famous your in the crowd watching others get richer and more famous thing. 

Was all that bad conditioning around with Noha, no of cousre not, all he had to contend with in 800 years was a little rain and looking for a donkeys mate. Is it any wonder he lived so long, is it any wonder you don't. Back then in eight hindered years, all they had to worry about was is it going to rain. In the UK we don't have to do that, as  it pretty well does every day and it's so much more depressing.

Anyway we digress, the point was that most of us think a lot of negative crap that fills our subconscious mind with a can't do attitude, is it's any wonder a  bit of alcohol or stage hypnosis gives people the excuse to let their hair down stick a broom up the left nostril or puke in the gutter.

So there you have it, the more negative stuff you think, the more you will age , forget botox, face lifts and cologen, just change the balance of those 60k thoughts and the worlds is yours, well for a bit longer anyway.

That's the start of manipulation, the ability to manipulate your own thoughts is the first step to success, wealth and happiness. Sounds easy, and it is if you want it to be, but for the majority of the planet it's the hardest trick to pull off , that simple switch from the negi to the possi. Maybe the reason for the difficulty in switching  is the pond we currently find ourselves in. Look around and count how much energy  your brain receives that is positive, life charging, creative, loving, nurturing, and how much isn't?

 The pond is the pond and you are influenced by everything at surrounds you in your pond, all the mucked up ducks, and the dead fish, just think, are there any beautiful white swans coming your way ?. So if you want to change the scenery within you, change the pond without.

But if you look at a pond you can't help wondering don't the ducks get a little bored and end up snapping at each other, arranging themselves into a pecking order, with  someone ending up king duck or queen for that matter. The fact is,  it's exactly the same for human kind, the only difference is we don't quack, do you?

But when you look at scientific evidence of communication the 55, 38, 7 rule still applies, 55% body, 38% tone, volume, and pace, and only 7% is the words or quacks we use , so are we so much different from the ducks? Well yes there is one thing that divides us , they get to fly off to a new pond one or two times a year for a breath of fresh air. We just get 2 weeks in the sun if we are lucky.

So if you want to change the circles you paddle in, your going to have to change the thought proccess that keep you in the same old rut. The pond of your mind is going to be re programmed to positively creative, powerfully pleasurable thoughts that you are going to love to have, a great sexy seductive voice in your head that tells you how wonderful you are, and how successful you are, and how attractive you are, everything you could imagine your perfect lover would ever say to you. The fact is you are going to get to go to bed with yourself every night, and you can do anything you want, play hard to get, whatever you like, but you are going to get to sleep with the prize every night for the rest of your life and wake up in the morning with that loving feeling for every day. Then you going to be able to project that feeling on everyone you meet...in a metaphorical sense.


So ask yourself , that empty feeling inside that you're always looking for someone to  fill or blaming someone for not filling, is life always about never being satisfied, or is there potentially another way. Thats the first step in manipulation, to be in control of your feelings and not have your feelings control you. If you're suseptable to fits of depression, or nervousness, moods of anger.. you are going to be the puppet of lifes whims. Therefor you will be wasting time and investing your valuable energy on diversions away from the rosie path to wealth happiness and riches.

There are so many distrations that can influence you away from the shortest direction to your goal and your ability to manipulate your internal state is the key. Meditation can help with relaxing your mind and allowing the stresses and frustration to fade away. Meditation for 20 minutes a day can put 10 years on your life, so long as you don't get stressed about finding 20 minutes a day. 

Meditation is the first stage of self hypnosis, which allows you to enter a natural relaxed state a little like day dreaming, which is a nice feeling, unless your programmed at school to feel bad about day dreaming by a stern teacher. It's weird, but a considerable amount of how you react as an adult is a reflection of your experience as a child. 

Your brain back then was a pure white piece of putty but when your best friend said you weren't their best friend anymore and went of with another kid, a wapping great big thumb print made a nice big impression in the putty. Now you've had that may thumbs and fingers thrust in the old grey matter you couldn't care less if your best friend said the same thing, it's all a bit childish but the damage was done all those years ago.

 The old term "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me is wrong", it's the words that kill you, little seeds of subconscious pain that last a lifetime influencing everything you do, being at an impressionable age once doesn't mean the impression disappears , it's yours for life, unless that is you learn some techniques to unravel the mind. Objective annalysis of your behaviour, asking your intuition will guide you to the false limits of your mind.