Learning is a simple process, it involves four distinct stages that can scare the hell of a grown man and make him cry. First comes the period of unconscious incompetence otherwise known as the period you know fuck all about the subject or skill in question. Next comes conscious incompetence where you know you're bad. Followed by conscious competence where you know your not that bad at all, and finally moving to unconscious competence where you're that confident you can multi task like the best of them while you're being dam good at the task in hand.
When it comes to making money, having a relationship or playing a sport the four stages apply...even having sex. With regard to this last subject I noticed Fifty Shades was on offer at Sainsbury's for 3.99 and decided to take a peak....not part with the cash though. My interest is in the method to make money ...not the sex side as to be honest it's really a bit lame. I don't know what the majority of women get up to in the bedroom but if this is the length and the breadth of their fantasies ...reality has got to be a sorry old show for them. Maybe it's their expectations that fall short of the mark, maybe their choice of partner is shall we say a little on the weak side. The female in love mode or on the security search is not all-together a rational being and from the the amount of women who find this book on the side of entertaining, the proof is they must be surely represed in their sexual experiences.
Expectations, now there's a thing. Of you don't expect to get what you would like don't expect the universe to give it to you, and if you have to go looking in a book to find your thrills maybe life is not quite as good as it could be. Start by taking a look in the mirror, there's the reality and in the book is the fantasy, and in the massive void between the two lies all the reasons for why life is oh so terribly boring. So what's the answer, well a good start would be to change not only the image you see in the mirror but also whats behind the image. Create what you want in your imagination and then go manifest it, otherwise it's going to be down to a wank over some pages of what someone else is wishing for and certainly not getting so you can join the club.
Mummy porn is not exactly what this project is about... as that's about as inept as a peep show. No, we are not looking to peep at the goodies from behind glass or though another's imagination, but to take up the challenge of success and beat the shit out of failure. The real world is where the real goodies are for those who want to suck the juice out of what this world has to offer rather than find a third rate way of getting your rocks off. Mind you, entertainment and the expansion of the mind are very good reasons to read a book...but if you get some inspiration for the good life don't let it stop there..bring your dreams into reality by changing yours.
As for Mr Grey...well I have to say he is a bit of a light weight when it comes to S&M, but I'm sure Miss Steele will manage to domesticate him and then accuse him of not being the man she met very quickly. Unfortunately our basic programming takes all the fun out of life.
No comments:
Post a Comment